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Sirm2023 35/M
Tulsa, Oklahoma
Introduction
All submissives are not alike
Even if 2 submissives are trained identically by the same Dominant, they are going to be different.
They may follow the same rules and protocols, they may even have the same limits, but they are still different.
Every submissive has a different mind and a different body. Different pleasure and pain thresholds.
Different likes and dislikes in different combinations, and Dominants need to be aware of this and adjust accordingly. Yes! A Dominant needs to adjust how and what they do depending on the submissive. They cannot treat every submissive the same and get the same responses and reactions from each and every submissive. If they try, they will fail. The relationship will either fall apart, or the Dominant will be constantly using force, instead of Dominance to get what the desired response, and the submissive will probably be miserable.
A good example is impact play. A dominant canât just start off flailing away as hard as they like.
Time must be taken to learn the submissiveâs tolerance of the amount of strikes and the intensity.
Exceeding tolerances just one time early in a relationship, can sour everything and put the submissive on the defensive. And well it should. It should be a red flag if a Dominant goes overboard early in a relationship.
Even if a submissive SAYS they can handle intense impact play, and has in the past, the Dominant CANNOT take for granted that the past play and the way he/she considers intense are the same.
It is the same for every aspect of BDSM and sexual intimacy. From bondage to wax play, anal sex to oral sex. Each submissive will handle it differently and both the Dominant and the submissive must keep communicating as they gradually build all aspects of the relationship and play to the point where they know each otherâs abilities and capabilities intimately.
© Sir ESE'
My Ideal Person A and this is submissive willing to pleasure her master looking for somebody experience more somebody needs to show
My Ideal Person A and this is submissive willing to pleasure her master looking for somebody experience more somebody needs to show
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level
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